Drawn Together
A Christian Workbook for Renewing Emotional, Spiritual, and Physical Intimacy
Drawn Together is a 13-session Christian workbook designed to help married couples cultivate emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy through presence, connection, and intentional practice.
Digital Workbook — $29
Purchase the complete downloadable workbook and begin the journey together at your own pace.
Founding Readers
For a limited time, I’m also inviting a small group of married couples to receive the complete workbook at no cost. In return, I’m asking Founding Readers to share honest feedback about their experience so I can continue strengthening future editions.
Intimacy Was Never Meant to Feel Like Pressure
Many couples long for closeness but find that stress, distraction, different experiences of desire, anxiety, or the demands of everyday life can gradually shape the way they experience one another.
Drawn Together invites couples to slow down and become more present—to themselves, to one another, to their bodies, and to God.
Through guided conversation, Scripture, prayer, affectionate and sensual touch, and intentional practices, couples gradually explore emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy in ways that make room for trust, pleasure, desire, and deeper connection.
Rather than treating intimacy as something to achieve or perform, Drawn Together helps couples cultivate the conditions in which intimacy can grow: presence, curiosity, mutuality, grace, and the experience of knowing and being known.
This Workbook Is For Couples Who Want To:
Deepen emotional, spiritual, and physical connection
Become more present and attentive to one another
Understand differences in desire and sexual response
Reduce anxiety and performance pressure around intimacy
Grow in affection, trust, and mutual understanding
Rediscover pleasure, playfulness, and delight together
Communicate more openly about wants, needs, and desires
Reconnect after busy, stressful, or distant seasons
Cultivate meaningful rhythms of closeness
Grow in the experience of knowing and being known
Whether you are newly married, have shared decades together, are reconnecting after a difficult season, or simply want to grow closer, Drawn Together offers a thoughtful path for cultivating intimacy throughout your marriage.
Inside the Workbook
Guided Connection Sessions
Thirteen guided sessions help couples move gradually from presence and affectionate connection toward pleasure, desire, and deeper sexual intimacy, drawing from Sensate Focus principles within a relational Christian framework.
Whole-Person Awareness
Explore how attention, anxiety, stress, embodied experience, attachment, desire, and relational context can shape the way couples experience intimacy.
Scripture & Guided Prayer
Reflect together through Scripture, prayer, and practices designed to nurture spiritual connection alongside emotional and physical intimacy.
Practical Relationship Practices
Guided conversations, reflection questions, affectionate and sensual touch exercises, journaling prompts, and simple practices help couples bring what they are learning into their relationship.
Presence Over Performance
Drawn Together encourages curiosity, mutuality, consent, and responsiveness rather than treating any particular sexual response or outcome as the measure of successful intimacy.
Ready to Begin?
Drawn Together is available as a complete digital workbook for $29. For a limited time, married couples may also become Founding Readers and receive the workbook at no cost in exchange for sharing feedback about their experience.